Perhaps it's time to end it?

By sweetie1986 on Sat, 02-25-12, 13:35

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I find myself increasingly frustrated lately. I have been in the same relationship with a guy for the last 9 months. We got along SO GOOD until recently. My birthday was earlier this month; and on my birthday we got into a huge fight. Things haven't been the same since. He says it's only in my head; but I really feel that it's not. The following weekend after my birthday he said he wanted the weekend to himself. So I tried to give him his space. The next weekend we spent maybe a couple hours together before he left. This weekend, I'm sitting at home alone waiting for him to "finish doing his homework" so he can come over and spend some time with me. I feel like the homework is just an excuse to stay away. Don't get me wrong, I understand homework being in pharmacy school myself; but it just doesn't seem like one class should be taking as much time as it has been for him. I have a feeling that I'm going to be alone for the majority part of tonight, but I feel like all I can do is to wait and see if he does come over.

I just don't know what to do at this point. He now says he doesn't like sleeping over here because I have two cats; but I've had them this entire time and I don't really see how that has anything to do with it. Should I just end it now? It's just so aggrevating being that 1 month ago, things were perfect.

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By summerfirefox on Sat, 02-25-12, 17:58

So you have talked in depth with him about this? I can see why you feel like he is avoiding you, when people start acting like that, it usually means they are hiding something and aren't willing to tell you the whole story. Maybe one of the times that you are feeling this way, like you are waiting on him, try going over to his house and say, "I just wanted to see how you were doing," and then your fears and worries can be set aside, hopefully. Sorry I can't be of much more help as I sometimes feel this way myself.

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