Maybe it should just be over?

SORRY MY INTERNET LAGGED AND DOUBLE POSTED!

I don't think he's ready to be in a commited relationship from the information you posted. I believe that a man will Profess, Provide, and Protect a woman he sees in his future. The fact that he refuses to move out with you unless you are pregnant shows that he's not really planning his future with you. I think you have every right to be upset about seeing that he wanted to do stuff with another girl. That is NOT acceptable in any way. On one side it has only been 3 months since you were together, so it seems a little too soon to get a place of your own. But on the other side it's not ok for him to be talking to these other girls in the way that he has been.

I would say if there's any way for you to move out on your own, do it. I know it's hard, but I think that it'd be worth it. If he asks why, just tell him that if he wants to be in your life that you expect more out of him. You expect him to step up and be the man that you deserve. You expect him to help take care of you (Provide), not talk to other women the way he has been and let other women know that he is taken (Profess) and not do things that he knows is going to hurt you (Protect). Otherwise, you'll be moving on with your life. And to let him know that you're serious, start getting applications from apartments. You don't actually have to turn them in until you find out more, but at least let him see you filling them out so he knows you're serious. Good luck to you!!

Thanks! He does a great job taking care of me, he is the only real income and he tries to get me whatever, but I wont let him buy me anything unless it is TRULY needed or unless I can pay him back. Hes always willing to lend a shoulder to cry on or talk with me...I just cant talk to him about some stuff because I am scared...I grew up with a mother that if I tried talking about something Id just get screamed at and told its all my fault or something negative, im trying hard to work on it...but it aggrevates the crap outta him. We got in an argument Thursday because I was super upset all day and I even cried a few times and I just couldn't tell him why, so he told me he wants to be with someone who can talk to him and tell him their problems not someone like me who keeps it bottled up inside. I told him that it had nothing to do with him(partially true) and that I dont want to burden him with my problems or drag him in.

Yesterday we talked a bit(over text...yes we were in the same house LOL) and he stated that he loves me a lot and he wants to be here for me through the good and the bad and even if he does get pissed off sometimes he isn't leaving and hes in it for the long haul. He said that him and his family are here for me(my other posts explain...long story short, my mother disowned me Saturday) so I don't have any family bc my grandfather on my moms side died and my grandmother hates my guts(seriously) and my other family on moms side are either dead or live too far away...and my biological father well hes in and out of the picture bc my mother.(also in my other post). I love my boyfriend, I truly do, im just going crazy living here because nothing works properly "our" apartment above his grams....no shower, no stove/oven, no fridge and the heat barely works. So we have to use his grandmothers stove and his mothers oven and the fridge downstairs and freezer outside....to me thats not how you should live...yeah it works and its better than on the streets but UGH! I truly could not move out on my own right now because I have but $212 a month from TANF a monthly income program for people from the state....been applying here and there and today I might actually apply at a restraunt for a waitressing job since it is literally at the end of my street and I do not have a license/car.