Break-Up

By Danielle_Gilleo on Thu, 02-23-12, 20:36

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So I wrote before how I thought my boyfriend was seeing his ex, and well a week ago he told me he didn't want to be with me anymore. I am having such a hard time getting over him. We were together for two years and I gave him absolutely everything and every part of me.
Today he called me and asked if I was seeing someone new. I said no I am talking to someone but we're just friends it's only been a week. He then told me that he was already having sex with other girls. I don't know why it hurts me so much but I just don't have a clue how to handle this. All I have been doing is crying and trying to be with people but I really don't want to be around anyone. I don't know what to do...

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By vkdogz on Fri, 02-24-12, 05:12

Stay stroungh if he is already having sex with other girls so soon it prob meens he wasn't that good of a guy anyways. maybe deleteing his number will help. Just remember there are other/better guys out there.

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By deedee1 on Fri, 02-24-12, 06:34

I get what you are saying. I have been so lonely lately so I called my husband and he told me he hsas moved on to. I cried but hes a crapy piece of crap, I think we have a lot to learn.

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By Danielle_Gilleo on Fri, 02-24-12, 07:07

Well we had a wedding planned and a family and one night he just walks into my work and tells me while i'm working that he doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. I don't understand why he had to tell me he was screwing other girls.
We also have a lease together too. It's not up until August....

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By Nicky on Fri, 02-24-12, 19:09

Hey Danielle, hang in there. I'm going through a similar situation although I never lived with my ex so that must make it a lot harder, especially sharing a lease. Sounds like him telling you he's sleeping with other girls he's trying to hurt you which is so cruel after what he's already done. I blocked my exs number and that has helped. The less contact the better.

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By Danielle_Gilleo on Fri, 02-24-12, 20:17

Well it doesn't help that today, i just found out that i'm pregnant with his baby...

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By deedee1 on Sat, 02-25-12, 14:26

Are you happy about the Baby? Are you going to tell him ans If you have what are you to going to do? Trust me when I found out I was pregnant I had left my husband too and I went back to him, worst decision I ever made. GOD bless

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By Danielle_Gilleo on Sat, 02-25-12, 16:04

I don't know how I feel about the baby. I mean I don't know if I am for sure pregnant either I go to the doctors on Monday.
I did tell him and he told me and is pushing for me to get an abortion...
I can't go back to him... I can't.

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By deedee1 on Sat, 02-25-12, 20:10

I understand your feeling though I was barely 16 when I found out I was pregnant and I took like 7 or 8 test to be sure. Still didnt believe it until I went to the ER and they told me. Well if you are you do right not to go back, I did and I wish to God I just had stayed away.

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By Danielle_Gilleo on Sun, 02-26-12, 21:29

Thanks. We'll see if I can get in the drs tomorrow. I mean it's not like I haven't been pregnant before but I lost my first. I am more unsure of this now that him and I are no longer together. It's been about a month and he's always with other girls in our apartment. It's still heartbreaking but I know that no matter what happens I could never go back. I am dating too.
We'll just have to see how things go I guess. Thanks again. =]

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By deedee1 on Mon, 02-27-12, 07:12

I'm wishing you good luck today. Being pregnant is no joke no matter if you want the baby or not. You deserve so much better anyway.

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